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And you want to please him and get the most out of the relationship from money to mentoring and everything else that you deserve and desire. What are some easy things you can do to stand out with your sugar daddy and keep him focused on you? Well, every guy is different but, let me share with you 5 things that have stood out for me in my arrangements and motivated more tangible attention like allowance and gifts from me for my sugar baby.
Sugar Daddies give them all the time at least I do anyway. You are a young sexy thing or an older sexy thing and we will often gush over your looks. You may have become jaded because you hear this from guys and girls all the time. Guess what? Especially your typical middle age sugar daddy and wow, when we get a compliment it really resonates.
As an example, I vividly remember when I was just out of the shower in the presidential suite of a top hotel in our home city. I had upgraded the room because it was my 4 th date with my new SB and she wanted to do our first overnight locally as a trial run before we started traveling together.
So, naturally, I wanted to impress and pamper her. Just out of the shower, was drying off in the master bathroom and she was getting ready for dinner in the adjacent vanity room. That was so simple for her do and say and it made me feel great. I happened to buy her a pair of Louboutins the next day on a whim. Did that compliment result in the new pair of red sole shoes?
I remember a trip to a Southern California resort with my SB. It was a business trip for me with some meetings and conference calls but we had a cabana at the pool where she spent the day lounging while I worked from the suite. When I had broken from my calls I would her for a little bit. Whenever I walked up she immediately put her phone down and focused on me. She greeted me with a kiss every time which she initiated along with a caress of my neck or a hand on my thigh. And she understood but was sorry to see me go back to the suite for another conference call and always gave me a goodbye kiss that she would initiate.
Was she acting? Perhaps a bit but she seemed sincere and I loved it. That means she enjoyed 2 or 3 times the amount of allowance had I been dating others. I volunteered it because I enjoyed her attention and affection more than the others I was seeing at the time. By the way, I did not expect nor ask exclusivity from her either. I remember an SB that once sent me a simple text after our 3 rd or 4 th date telling me how much she enjoyed hearing about my experiences. Frankly, I was a bit worried that I might be boring her with various stories from when I was her age to what went down in the boardroom earlier in the day.
However, she enjoyed learning about my past to gain perspective for herself and was fascinated with my current work too. Knowing that she appreciates it makes a real difference and definitely keeps me focused on my SB. Others want to play it more low key.
And some want a combination of both depending on the situation. Ask about his preferences and learn how to read them. And of course, you should always be comfortable with them too. I remember an SB that was dating me and another man at the same time and we were two opposites in the way we approached our public appearances. Her other SD would take her to clubs and bars and have her dress as sexy as possible while doting on him and hanging on his every word.
She kind of enjoyed some of these elements as she had a bit of an exhibitionist streak and had fun with the whole role. I, on the other hand, am usually the complete opposite. Always low key in public I asked her to dress casual or more conservative and the most PDA might be some hand holding or a peck on the cheek, especially in our home city.
When traveling the same held true with me except around resort pools. In that case, I changed my usual approach completely and I loved to have her show off the skimpy bikinis I bought her and enjoyed watching all the other guys stare with envy. She knew I got a kick out of this and would totally tease the whole pool area sashaying around and then coming over and sitting on my lounge chair and laying a kiss on me.
As an example of someone that did not follow through on my in public preference, I once went into a store with a different SB and she started trying on all kinds of sexy outfits for her upcoming Coachella trip. The first SB knew how to read me and she knew when to clarify what I wanted too.
Do the same — your sugar daddy will appreciate it. If he sends you an or text he appreciates an acknowledgment just like you would appreciate one from your boyfriend or BFF. Sometimes he may overstep and want to text too much and in that is the case just gently let him know of your boundaries when it comes to texting and other communications.
And of course be reliable. Being late and canceling sometimes happens but it should be very rare. One of my longest running SB relationships never had a trip or date cancel and only once had a lunch rescheduled due to a work matter out of her control. That was exceptional.
I hope you keep these tips in mind to make your SD feel like a king and get more out of your relationship and arrangement. Thank you for the kind words and I am really happy to hear you found my two posts helpful! Thanks again for commenting! I have always said… when in doubt, ask!!
Communication is key… both ways.
There is no such thing as a stupid question. Great posts Steve. Thanks Vanilla! Communication is so key and often easier said than done. One of the great things of many of NSA sugar dating is the ease of honesty and expressing what each party enjoys or prefers to avoid. Thanks for your nice words and for taking the time to comment! You must be logged in to post a comment. Write For Us Events Videos. in to Your Or use your. Hello California Hockey Girl intriguing user name!Erotic sugar daddy chat
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